Posted by zelina on Sep 26, '09 6:24 AM for everyone
APPCO Direct International Inc.
BUILDING A BRIGHTER FUTURE
Appco Philippines is a global outsourced sales and marketing company. We provide sales and marketing solutions for major international clients in the Philippines.
Our current international clients have doubled their targets and expectations from us because of our achievements in the last 3 Quarters. With higher targets and budgets for Q4, we are currently recruiting Management Trainees for our Makati Branch Office.
Management Trainee (National Capital Reg)
Responsibilities:
Appco’s Management Trainee program is scheduled into 3 phases:
Phase1: Sales and Marketing
At the entry level, you are expected to undergo Sales and Marketing training. You are expected to conduct face to face presentations on behalf of our clients. We expect you to achieve high competency levels in sales before you move on to Phase 2.
Phase 2: Team Management
With the foundation in Sales and Marketing, you are expected to teach, train, and manage a team of 5-7 individuals. With proper training provided, we expect you to be responsible for our international clients’ campaigns and accountable for team performance.
Phase 3: Branch Management
With the foundation in Team management, we train you in terms of running a branch office involving both the Administration Avenue and the Operations Avenue. You are expected to manage a team of 20+ individuals and are responsible for client targets for your respective branch office.
Requirements:
A Bachelor’s Degree and above (any discipline)
Must be highly motivated and result driven
Ability to conduct Face to Face presentations with excellent communication skills
Ambitious and willing to have second to none work ethic.
Fresh graduates are welcome to apply
If you are serious about building a bright future with an International company and feel that you can be one of our future branch managers, then send an email to our HR Department with a coversheet and updated copy of your CV.
NOTE: This position is not for a call center position. If you are not a people person and do not like face to face communication, kindly do not apply.
If interested, kindly send your CV to zeline.d@gmail.comso I can forward it directly to our HR for initial screening. SMS me at 09292702249 once your CV has been sent. Thanks.
Posted by zelina on Sep 16, '08 7:42 PM for everyone
In contrast to the earlier post, this is something I stumbled upon a guy friend's site (I think he changed parts of it so this should be better than the original, haha). Dunno which of which is true, really, so if you've got thoughts, go on and dish!
1. Express yourself. It makes us proud, even if someone thinks you're wrong.
2. You look hot in running shoes and shorts. And that top thingy with the stripes. And in our shirts.
3. Bare, tan shoulders are underrated.
4. If you think I’m speeding now, you should see me drive when you're not in the car.
5. If you're truly interested in us, don't play hard to get. And please bear our teasing :) If it becomes excessive, it just means we like you.
6. Please dont make us carry girly bags...please.
7. When I screw up, go ahead and tell me--once.
8. We love you more when you're just wearing jeans and a white shirt.
9. I'm hot for you, not your sister or your friend or your coworker.
10. Boys stick together, no matter what.
11. Don't be afraid to ditch the makeup. Natural is sexier.
12. We like it when you brush our hair with your hands, when you rub our backs, and when you touch our ears.
13. You can have sex with us any time you want. Seriously.
14. When the game is on, we will pay attention to you if you're nice about it. Bark, and we shut down. No nagging please.
15. I don't ask for directions because I’m just happy to be driving. Anywhere.
16. Feed us and we'll be happy.
17. We crave hugs and hand-holding too. And no, it doesn't always have to lead to sex.
18. But you can have sex with us any time you want. Did we mention that?
19. There's no better sound in the world than you, having an orgasm. 20. Though the exhaust note of a Porsche Boxster is pretty damn fine, too.
21. I just may lie to make you feel good. Don’t be angry about this. You really weren't looking for the truth anyway.
22. When you get angry over some stupid little pointless thing, we will more often than not think that it is THAT time of the month.
23. You’re really bad at faking it.
24. If I offer my help while you're getting ready, it means you’re late.
25. Never ask me to pick out your outfit. (See above.) I will invariably get it wrong and make us even more late.
26. But we will still choose.. even though we know our opinion does not really matter. 27. Err on the side of hot; I love to show you off.
28. Unless we're meeting my parents.
29. It is okay if you talk a lot. Just ask how we are every now and then. We will definitely appreciate the simple "How are you?"
30. We love a girl with a big appetite.
31. Girls who drink beer are hot. Better yet: chicks who drink beer and watch the game. Better still: chicks who buy us beer.
32. We don't mind being told we look good. Just don't call it a "cute outfit."
33. We love ponytails. But the occasional lugay would be great. : )
34. Boys will be boys. Accept it.
35. The first time? We're as nervous as you are.
36. A random unexpected grope is always welcome, even in public. Especially in public.
37. Make us laugh and we'll want to hang around. Show us that you can laugh at yourself, and we'll stay longer.
38. Yes, I laugh really loud around the guys. And I always will, so deal.
39. Sure, men stereotypically like to solve a woman's problems. But a woman who solves her own while we watch? Booyah. Show us your independence, and we will like you even more.
40. We dont ALWAYS have to decide whenever we go out. Everything's two-way. ; )
41. We might look at other girls...but we're just actually pitying how low they are compared to you. ; )
42. Sometimes we wonder why any woman would want to be with us, much less someone as amazing as you. So, thanks.
43. Anytime you cook for us, we're happy.
44. If you can shoot a ball through the hoop, we just might fall in love.
45. We take pleasure in taking care of you and making you happy.
46. We love you even more because you know we need to go out with the guys once in a while.
47. And we love it when you hang with us guys, too.
48. We have a keen sense of imminent danger. It sounds like, "Do you think she's pretty?" Almost everything is a test, we know.
Posted by zelina on Sep 16, '08 6:33 AM for everyone
(Surprisingly) I agree with most of it. How about you? I added notes to indicate those na napapa-HUH? na lang ako, haha.
1. Saying "I love you" immediately before, during, or following sex doesn't count.
2. Real men drive stick shift. (They also know how to change a flat tire.)
3. I will leave if you lie.[HUH? Totally circumstantial.]
4. My best friend knows everything. When my friend smirks at you knowingly, you are not imagining it. She knows something. So just know that she knows, and deal with it. (It's not going to change.)
Ask her about me, or chat with her about our relationship, at your own risk. She will tell me. Even -- in fact, especially -- if she promises not to. This is not always a bad thing (e.g., if you happen to be telling her how much you love me). But, in general, remember that she is my confidante first, and yours never.
5. When you go away, even for a day, I sleep in your favorite old T-shirt because it smells like you.
6. I love it when you hug me from behind and whisper in my ear.
7. "Fine" or "Okay" is never an appropriate response when I ask you how I look.[HUH? Only applies when it's a really bad day.]
8. Most of the time when I fantasize, it's about you.
9. I'm terrified of becoming my mother, even though I admire her.[HUH? A little lang. Haha.]
10. I still think about my ex-boyfriends and compare them to you. Mostly you win. Sometimes not.
11. I expect you to call me.
12. I have Googled your exes.
13. I'm scared of losing my independence.
14. I'm more forgiving of you than I really should be.
15. When I say, "I'm ready," I'll need exactly 7 more minutes to get ready. Don't try to cheat the system by showing up 7 minutes later; I will still need an extra 7 minutes.[HUH? Well, not most of the time. And does it have to be seven minutes talaga?]
16. You've made me cry more times than you'll ever know.
17. I want you to talk a little dirty.
18. Shoes determine whether you're fashionable or not.[HUH? And the watch probably.]
19. I'm constantly testing you. I observe, analyze, and judge every action, word, gesture, e-mail, and facial expression. When I ask you if you want to have a threesome, I don't mean it. If you want me to speak to you again, let alone sleep with you after this conversation, the answer should always be, "Why would I want to sleep with another woman when I have you?"[HUH? Not 100% of the time, nakakapagod yun.]
20. When I compare my flabby tummy to a kangaroo pouch, say nothing.
21. A man I love plans the occasional fancy-schmancy dress-up date and impromptu weekend getaways, and he buys my favorite candy in advance when we're just going to the movies.
22. You look hot in hooded clothing items.[HUH? Applies if you look good in it to begin with.]
23. I need constant indications that you want me around. That's why it's better, for example, to say, "I want you to come away with me for the weekend. Could you come with me?" than to ask, "What are you up to this weekend?"
24. If I slept over, you owe me breakfast.
25. I love it when you get a little jealous. So if you ever see me flirting in front of you with the waiter, the bus driver, or another guy at a party, know I'm actually flirting with you -- through him.
26. If you ask me out directly, I will say yes.
27. I'm very impressed when you ask for my advice.
28. I'm unimpressed with a man who doesn't take the lead.
29. When in doubt, go with the shirt that matches your eye color.
30. I want to be Madonna.
31. I start fights with you because I'm feeling ignored. I'm trying to force emotion out of you. Don't retreat into your cave; just give me what I want: some attention. And never tell me to "calm down," unless you want to guarantee that I absolutely won't.[I was supposed to say something but I know women who do this talaga so it really should be here, haha.]
32. I'm in heaven when you hold my hand.
33. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, eating a peach, holding a baby.
34. I need to hear how you feel about me. Often. Tell me now.[HUH? Sincerity always always trumps frequency.]
35. Surprises, especially gifts for moi = more loving.
36. I want to be the best thing that ever happened to you -- and for you to recognize this.
37. If I'm not feeling loved, I will start looking....
38. Discussion of ex-gf's and ex-bf's should be avoided at all times.[HUH? Not necessarily.]
39. I like it when you tell me what you're thinking, even if you don't know yourself.
40. Celebrating our anniversary, even if it's only been a few months, earns major bonus points.
41. I love it when you're sweaty.
42. It's best to consult your gal pals for gift ideas.
43. A lady should always be greeted with kisses.
44. Even if I insist on paying or splitting the bill on our first date, I'll think you're cheap if you let me.
45. I love holding your bum in the palms of my hands.
46. Even nice girls like hushed dirty talk in public.
47. It's cheating as soon as you're doing something with her that you wouldn't want me to see, hear, read...
48. For the record: I'd rather you break up with me than cheat.
49. I remember everything about our relationship.
50. You should know all this and more without my telling you.
Posted by zelina on Aug 25, '08 2:23 PM for everyone
Current playlist I have at work -- a mix of the old and new, rock to RNB, album chart toppers to one hit singles, in short anything and everything. that's about it!
Pure Shores
OST The Beach
All Saints
Forever
Exclusive (Re-release)
Chris Brown
Like A Star - Corinne Bailey Rae
27 Dresses
Various Artists
I Wanna love You Clean
Akon feat Snoop
Right Here (Departed)
Right Here (Departed) - Single
Brandy
On The Side Of Me
Beautiful Seed
Corrinne May
Flashdance (Club Mix)
Deep Dish
Labels Or Love
Sex And The City
Fergie
Hed Kandi - Man in the Mirror (Club Mix)
Disco Heaven 2005
Hed Kandi
p.d.a.
Once Again
John Legend
Unfair - Josh Kelley
27 Dresses
Various Artists
I Like The Way
Sex And The City
Kaskade
Broken
Who We Are
Lifehouse
You And Me
Lifehouse
4 Minutes
Hard Candy
Madonna
Jump
Confessions On A Dance Floor
Madonna
Always Be My Baby
Billboard Top 100 of 1996
Mariah Carey
Still Standing (Featuring Ludacris)
Still Standing - Single
Monica
Who Knows - Natasha Bedingfield
27 Dresses
Various Artists
Closer
Year Of The Gentleman
Ne-Yo
Forbidden Fruit Feat. Shakira
Year Of The Gentlemen
Ne-Yo
Ne-Yo - Go On Girl
Miss Independent (Remix) (Dirty)
NeYo ft David Banner
Nobody
Year Of The Gentlemen
Ne-Yo
Together
Year Of The Gentlemen
Ne-Yo
Yo
Ne
Ice Box
21
Omarion
Say (All I Need)
Dreaming Out Loud
OneRepublic
One Wish
Ray J
Way I Are (feat Keri Hilson & D.o.e.)
Timbaland
no you hang up
No U Hang Up / If That's Ok With You CDM
Shayne Ward
Usher - Love In This Club Part 2.mp3
Forgiveness
Es Vive Ibiza 2006
Wamdue Project
The Hollowww
Mer De Noms
A Perfect Circle
Thinking Of You
Mer De Noms
A Perfect Circle
John Mayer - Back To You
09 Love Song For No One
John Mayer - Not Myself
Wamdue Project - King Of My Castle
Lances da Vida - I Don't Want to Be - Gavin DeGraw
Posted by zelina on Jun 27, '08 7:21 AM for everyone
Best track for me: What's A Man To Do
Ohhh ohhhh Ohhhhh ohhh Ohhhhh yeaa
Listen I'd be a liar if I told you That I didn't see it coming Be more of a liar if I said Hey I didn't want it to be something You deserve much better For the love that you have shared I know you won't believe it But girl I swear That I got love for you Big love for you Even when I'm tripping The fact remains that You will always be my baby My baby
But take the truth Baby take the truth I can't hide my feelings Especially when the whole world can see
That my heart is in two different places I got you in my life and I wanna do right But it's hard to let it go When my love has two different faces And I can't pretise cause they both look right Someone tell me what's a man to do When he's loving two And he don't wanna lie But he can't tell the truth
What's a man to do When he's loving two But he can't keep his heart In two different places In two different places
I know you feel it cause you stay There is much more to this story But I'd be a fool to say I trust her and I'm always gonna love her You know that you don't wanna hear
I been living on the edge baby So I guess yea baby She ain't nothing but she is real But why take her through it When I still got love for you Big love for you Even when I'm tripping The fact remains that You will always be my baby My baby
But take the truth Baby take the truth I can't hide my feelings Especially when the whole world can see
That my heart is in two different places I got you in my life and I wanna do right But it's hard to let it go When my love has two different faces And I can't pretise cause they both look right Someone tell me what's a man to do When he's loving two And he don't wanna lie But he can't tell the truth
What's a man to do When he's loving two But he can't keep his heart In two different places Not in two different places
I wanna tell you it's over That I ain't thinking of her I wanna really mean it That I want you to see it That I'm really trying to leave her behind And I'm trying not to make you cry I wanna tell you that I ain't playing games and I'm dedicated to receive a change But when I look in the mirror It's the same old me
That my heart is in two different places I got you in my life and I wanna do right But it's hard to let it go When my love has two different faces And I can't pretise cause they both look right Someone tell me what's a man to do When he's loving two And he don't wanna lie But he can't tell the truth
What's a man to do When he's loving two But he can't keep his heart In two different places Not in two different places Not in two different places
Posted by zelina on Jun 12, '08 7:34 AM for everyone
One of my favorite journalists to date, aside from Randy David, is Conrado de Quiros. The topics he decides to express opinion on, his sharp wit, and ability to render his reader speechless after his article's last word. Read on and be compelled to take action if not atleast form your own opinion.
Column: Theres The Rub Article: Still, change By Conrado de Quiros Philippine Daily Inquirer
I personally am glad Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo is meeting with George W. Bush later this month. It reestablishes in the public mind the very close links between those two leaders.
By close links, I do not mean their “anti-terrorist” alliance, which has always been shaky and become even shakier with Arroyo veering closer to China. I do not mean by it that Arroyo and Bush have made “special relations” even more special by drawing the two countries closer. I mean by it the uncanny similarities between those two, enough to make one believe, despite the fact that one is ruler of the world and the other ruler only of Lilliput, that they are psychic twins.
Both are the progenies of presidents who became presidents themselves for a couple of terms. Bush by tinkering with the Florida votes the first time—that was how he beat Al Gore—and by winning reasonably cleanly against John Kerry the second time. Arroyo by being swept to power the first time and by cheating the hell out of FPJ the second time.
Both are small and petty and have a huge chip on their shoulders, resentful of the fact that before they came to power they had been belittled for being, well, small and petty. Both have an insatiable appetite for power, Bush seeking it for the Neo-Cons and their vision of the United States straddling the world like a colossus, as Cassius said of Caesar, and Arroyo seeking it for herself. (One is tempted to add “and her husband,” but that presumes a capacity to see beyond self, a trait she has little shown.)
Both are detested by their constituents. A CNN/Opinion Research poll last month showed that 71 percent of Americans disapproved of Bush, the first time any American president broke the 70 percent barrier. He has single-handedly provided David Letterman, Jay Leno, Conan O’Brien, Jon Stewart and other talk show hosts no end of material, which was probably what got them through the writers’ strike. Arroyo hasn’t just broken every barrier in disapproval rating, she has zoomed past them. She is probably more unpopular now than Marcos was then: Marcos at least had the undying loyalty of the Ilocanos (and Imelda the Warays), Arroyo has only the dying loyalty of the Cabalens and the Cebuanos. Or their loyalty does not come from the heart, it comes from the pockets.
Most importantly, both like to lie to their people. If it hadn’t been patent before, Bush’s former press secretary has made it patent now: Bush lied about the Iraq War. He sent American youths to their deaths in desert sands for reasons that had nothing to do with democracy or freedom. The subtitle of Scott McClellan’s book sums it up: “Inside the Bush White House and Washington’s Culture of Deception.” He might as well have been writing about Malacañang. In Arroyo’s case, well, what has she not lied about? The only truth she has ever told is that if she ran in 2004, she would bring unending divisiveness upon this country.
But I am glad Arroyo is meeting with Bush later this month because of an even more compelling or sublime reason. That is the fact that Barack Obama, who has just won the Democratic primaries and will be the next president of America barring an assassination, provides a tremendous contrast—not least for Filipinos to see—between him and them. Right vs. Wrong, Virtue vs. Vice, Hope vs. Despair, Good vs. Evil, Life vs. Death.
Obama’s core message is Change, the one thing that Americans want, as shown by the surveys. That is the opposite of the core message of Bush and Arroyo, which is More of the Same. Obama’s core thrust is transparency, or telling the truth about the Iraq Invasion and everything else about life to the American people. That is the opposite of the core thrust of Bush and Arroyo, which is to lie unto death.
Indeed, the very core of Obama’s existence is hope, the unlikely hero of the story winning in the end, the Hobbit undoing the Evil Eye, the neophyte senator stealing the thunder from everybody else and going on to become the first black president of America. That is the opposite of the very core of Bush’s and Arroyo’s existence, Bush being one US president who, like Sen. Joseph McCarthy and Richard Nixon, roistered a reign of tyranny and paranoia, and Arroyo being one Filipino president who, like Ferdinand Marcos, stole everything that wasn’t nailed to the floor, including the vote and human life. They will, or should, go on, to disappear in the bowels of obscurity or the annals (or anus) of infamy as they richly deserve.
This is one time I won’t really mind that we yield to the clutches of “colonial mentality” and imitate, or make “gaya-gaya,” as the “coñotics” say, the United States today. We’ve already pretty much forgotten EDSA People Power, we could do with some new infusions of inspiration, and this is one huge shot of adrenaline in dying veins. By all means let’s talk of change and truth and hope too. Even better, let’s ape America shamelessly and produce an Obama too.
If we are to take any consolation from the hell on earth that Bush and Arroyo have wrought, it is only in that it has made us, or should make us, hanker for heaven. That is the only good they have done, to be so evil they’ve left us no choice but to crave good. Without the despair Bush has provoked, America would not have glimpsed the hope Obama invokes. I don’t know that we will ever produce an Obama—though I have no doubt we do not lack for people like him, who are to be found however outside the ranks of today’s politicians. But I have little doubt that the hell Arroyo’s long and despotic rule has brought us will have us hankering for heaven too. When that rule is over-and it won’t be so unless we move to make it so—we will demand from ourselves never to be plunged to that nightmare again.
When Arroyo and Bush meet later this month, their constituents themselves will have only one agenda: Change.
Posted by zelina on Mar 3, '08 3:45 PM for everyone
Could you think it over? When we get older I'll still want you here with me Darling I hope that you agree There's something that takes place Whenever we embrace I'm hoping that you take this chance Of steppin' out to dance
Posted by zelina on Feb 5, '08 8:18 AM for everyone
Why did I choose to stay in the Philippines?
February 03, 2008 Updated 19:08:39 (Mla time) Howard Belton Philippine Daily Inquirer
MANILA, Philippines--BECAUSE of Filipinos, that’s the answer.
Filipinos who made us so welcome from day one and have enriched our lives ever since.
It has been almost 10 years since Cristina and I arrived in Manila. In Unilever, I found a spirit of family way above that in other places, and this wonderful family took us to their hearts and made my business career a joy.
What made it a joy was not just the hard work and spirit of our employees, but their willingness to embrace change and come up with innovations.
The Rexona ministick, invented here, is now exported to 20 countries.
Close-up “Lovapalooza” not only got into the Guinness book of records but was featured on CNN, BBC and many other news channels -- I never thought I would be famous in Unilever for kissing!
I could give many other examples of the creativity of our Filipino employees. These innovations have made Unilever Philippines famous and admired in the Unilever world.
Outside Unilever, so many other people welcomed us as friends. They took the trouble to take us to meet their friends. So within months we were busy almost every evening.
These friends took us beyond business into many different social circles, into the arts, government, NGOs and many others—we are blessed by this variety of experience. And our circle of friends has grown and grown so that even now I am retired our life is full.
It isn’t only the well-off who have welcomed us.
Unilever is based in Paco, on the edge of the Pasig and in the middle of a poorer community. It had a long tradition of community involvement, which Cristina and I were proud to support. As a result of our work on the environment and poverty alleviation, we have met many wonderful people who give their lives to helping the community.
We have also met thousands of Filipinos in poor communities, in Baseco, Smokey Mountain, Parola, Pandacan and elsewhere. Despite their struggle for a decent living, they have always made two foreigners feel welcome.
We will never forget our first visit to Baseco, shortly after the terrible fire there, taking Unilever’s relief goods for 3,000 people. How calmly and cheerfully people waited for the distribution, and when the goods ran out how peacefully they accepted our promise to return with more. It would not happen like that in many so called “advanced” countries.
It was a great honor to go to Malacañang recently and receive the Order of the Golden Heart from the President, in recognition of my community work. Of course I felt very proud, but also a little guilty as there are so many people who have worked longer and harder for the community than I have. I dedicate the award to them.
Certainly, the award does add to my motivation to continue.
I was also honored to become President of Philippine Business for the Environment, and Cristina and I are involved in many other fulfilling activities.
We are lucky enough to have explored the Philippines, from Pagudpud in the north to Davao in the south, and enjoyed many beautiful places. I am a history major and have loved to visit so many old churches, though some are in sad disrepair.
Of course in lively but messy Manila we have to dream of this beauty—or ride out to Lake Taal which we have come to love.
But we do enjoy the life of a busy city. We divide our time between noisy Manila and our beautiful farm in the heart of the English countryside, where the only sound is of the birds and a trickling stream.
What a contrast—but, you know, it makes a wonderful balance.
Of course, it is sad to see corrupt Filipinos abusing their fellow-citizens, and the level of poverty is a constant reproach. I have heard friends say that the Filipino tolerance and sense of humor in adversity may be partly a negative, as they weaken the drive for improvement. There may be some truth in that.
I remember sitting in the Rotary Club of Manila meeting being addressed by the Japanese ambassador. The old member next to me whispered “It’s ironic that today is the anniversary of the day that the Japanese admiral who butchered so many people here in Manila killed himself.”
I asked, “Why don’t you mention it?” He replied, “No it’s a long time ago, and it’s best to move on.” Was he right? I’m not sure.
George, my father in law, spent eight years here, and saw Filipinos at their best. Our two housekeepers, Jesryl and Dory, loved him like a grandfather. And when he came to need nursing he received a level of tender care which just could not be achieved in England. So his last years were happy ones.
We are full of gratitude for the way our Filipino friends rallied round on his recent death. We decided to give him a Filipino wake -- very different from the custom in England -- and it was comforting to have the support of so many people.
During the wake, one of my friends said, “Now, with this experience, you are truly Filipino.” Well, I do start to feel that way.
So, for Cristina and I, it has become natural to stay here. We stay to enjoy the Philippines in all its variety, to share our lives with our Filipino friends, and, we hope, to give something back to the country which has adopted us.
Posted by zelina on Jan 28, '08 7:58 AM for everyone
*title taken from an Esquire article on Yahoo! where this foolosophy took inspiration from
I am independent, too much for comfort as some friends tell me. I would never be caught letting a guy companion carry my bag unless I'm literally suffering in order to lift it. I don't need anyone to drive me around, I am perfectly capable of driving or taking a cab. Meaning, I can get to wherever, no one has to take me from point A to B and wait around for several hours just to take me back to point A at the end of the day. I can also perfectly dismiss the unwarranted attention of men that I do not want to associate myself with. And the most common and sometimes subject to abuse act of chivalry known to both man and woman since time immemorial -- footing the bill -- I can do for myself as well.
So now maybe I, and the fast rising number of women of today, would seem to be the wrong target for men who would want to perform acts of chivalry, however little. That's probably the reason why so few men dare try. But actually, I don't think chivalry is dead for me, us. I think it just evolved into some language of actions and not words -- an understanding that goes different with each woman and man and spells success once a match between a woman's desired and a man's performed action is realized.
I can't really enumerate the different signs by which a woman shows that she wants an act of chivalry done for her, because I myself don't know all. However I think that with this no man can go wrong -- show a girl that you got her back -- and I'm sure that's all a guy would ever need to offer.
Posted by zelina on Jan 22, '08 5:06 AM for everyone
I am reposting John Gokongwei's moving speech at the 2007 Ad Congress, hoping that it inspires people to think big and work hard to achieve big. At kahit hindi ko pa naisip magtrabaho sa JG Group, idol ko pa din si JG.
Before I begin, I want to say please bear with me, an 81-year-old man who just flew in from San Francisco 36 hours ago and is still suffering from jet lag. However, I hope I will be able to say what you want to hear.
Ladies and gentlemen, good evening. Thank you very much for having me here tonight to open the Ad Congress. I know how important this event is for our marketing and advertising colleagues. My people get very excited and go into a panic, every other year, at this time.
I would like to talk about my life, entrepreneurship, and globalization. I would like to talk about how we can become a great nation.
You may wonder how one is connected to the other, but I promise that, as there is truth in advertising, the connection will come.
Let me begin with a story I have told many times. My own.
I was born to a rich Chinese-Filipino family. I spent my childhood in Cebu where my father owned a chain of movie houses, including the first air-conditioned one outside Manila. I was the eldest of six children and lived in a big house in Cebu's Forbes Park.
A chauffeur drove me to school everyday as I went to San Carlos University, then and still one of the country's top schools. I topped my classes and had many friends. I would bring them to watch movies for free at my father's movie houses.
When I was 13, my father died suddenly of complications due to typhoid. Everything I enjoyed vanished instantly. My father's empire was built on credit. When he died, we lost everything-our big house, our cars, our business-to the banks.
I felt angry at the world for taking away my father, and for taking away all that I enjoyed before. When the free movies disappeared, I also lost half my friends. On the day I had to walk two miles to school for the very first time, I cried to my mother, a widow at 32. But she said: "You should feel lucky. Some people have no shoes to walk to school. What can you do? Your father died with 10 centavos in his pocket."
So, what can I do? I worked.
My mother sent my siblings to China where living standards were lower. She and I stayed in Cebu to work, and we sent them money regularly. My mother sold her jewelry. When that ran out, we sold roasted peanuts in the backyard of our much-smaller home. When that wasn't enough, I opened a small stall in a palengke.
I chose one among several palengkes a few miles outside the city because there were fewer goods available for the people there. I woke up at five o'clock every morning for the long bicycle ride to the palengke with my basket of goods.
There, I set up a table about three feet by two feet in size. I laid out my goods-soap, candles, and thread-and kept selling until everything was bought. Why these goods? Because these were hard times and this was a poor village, so people wanted and needed the basics-soap to keep them clean, candles to light the night, and thread to sew their clothes.
I was surrounded by other vendors, all of them much older. Many of them could be my grandparents. And they knew the ways of the palengke far more than a boy of 15, especially one who had never worked before.
But being young had its advantages. I did not tire as easily, and I moved more quickly. I was also more aggressive. After each day, I would make about 20 pesos in profit! There was enough to feed my siblings and still enough to pour back into the business. The pesos I made in the palengke were the pesos that went into building the business I have today.
After this experience, I told myself, "If I can compete with people so much older than me, if I can support my whole family at 15, I can do anything! "
Looking back, I wonder, what would have happened if my father had not left my family with nothing? Would I have become the man I am? Who knows?
The important thing to know is that life will always deal us a few bad cards. But we have to play those cards the best we can. And WE can play to win!
This was one lesson I picked up when I was a teenager. It has been my guiding principle ever since. And I have had 66 years to practice self-determination. When I wanted something, the best person to depend on was myself.
And so I continued to work. In 1943, I expanded and began trading goods between Cebu and Manila. From Cebu, I would transport tires on a small boat called a batel. After traveling for five days to Lucena, I would load them into a truck for the six- hour trip to Manila. I would end up sitting on top of my goods so they would not be stolen! In Manila, I would then purchase other goods from the earnings I made from the tires, to sell in Cebu.
Then, when WWII ended, I saw the opportunity for trading goods in post-war Philippines. I was 20 years old. With my brother Henry, I put up Amasia Trading which imported onions, flour, used clothing, old newspapers and magazines, and fruits from the United States. In 1948, my mother and I got my siblings back from China. I also converted a two-story building in Cebu to serve as our home, office, and warehouse all at the same time. The whole family began helping out with the business.
In 1957, at age 31, I spotted an opportunity in corn-starch manufacturing. But I was going to compete with Ludo and Luym, the richest group in Cebu and the biggest cornstarch manufacturers. I borrowed money to finance the project. The first bank I approached made me wait for two hours, only to refuse my loan. The second one, China Bank, approved a P500 ,000-peso clean loan for me. Years later, the banker who extended that loan, Dr. Albino Sycip said that he saw something special in me. Today, I still wonder what that was, but I still thank Dr. Sycip to this day.
Upon launching our first product, Panda corn starch, a price war ensued. After the smoke cleared, Universal Corn Products was still left standing. It is the foundation upon which JG Summit Holdings now stands.
Interestingly, the price war also forced the closure of a third cornstarch company, and one of their chemists was Lucio Tan, who always kids me that I caused him to lose his job. I always reply that if it were not for me, he will not be one of the richest men in the Philippines today.
When my business grew, and it was time for me to bring in more people-my family, the professionals, the consultants, more employees-I knew that I had to be there to teach them what I knew. When dad died at age 34, he did not leave a succession plan. From that, I learned that one must teach people to take over a business at any time. The values of hard work that I learned from my father, I taught to my children. They started doing jobs here and there even when they were still in high school. Six years ago, I announced my retirement and handed the reins to my youngest brother James and only son Lance. But my children tease me because I still go to the office every day and make myself useful. I just hired my first Executive Assistant and moved into a bigger and nicer office.
Building a business to the size of JG Summit was not easy. Many challenges were thrown my way. I could have walked away from them, keeping the business small, but safe. Instead, I chose to fight. But this did not mean I won each time.
By 1976, at age 50, we had built significant businesses in food products anchored by a branded coffee called Blend 45, and agro-industrial products under the Robina Farms brand. That year, I faced one of my biggest challenges, and lost. And my loss was highly publicized, too. But I still believe that this was one of my defining moments.
In that decade, not many business opportunities were available due to the political and economic environment. Many Filipinos were already sending their money out of the country. As a Filipino, I felt that our money must be invested here. I decided to purchase shares in San Miguel, then one of the Philippines' biggest corporations. By 1976, I had acquired enough shares to sit on its board.
The media called me an upstart. "Who is Gokongwei and why is he doing all those terrible things to San Miguel?" ran one headline of the day. In another article, I was described as a pygmy going up against the powers-that- be. The San Miguel board of directors itself even aid for an ad in all the country's top newspapers telling the public why I should not be on the board.
On the day of reckoning, shareholders quickly filled up the auditorium to witness the battle. My brother James and I had prepared for many hours for this debate. We were nervous and excited at the same time.
In the end, I did not get the board seat because of the Supreme Court Ruling. But I was able to prove to others-and to myself-that I was willing to put up a fight. I succeeded because I overcame my fear, and tried. I believe this battle helped define who I am today. In a twist to this story, I was invited to sit on the board of Anscor and San Miguel Hong Kong 5 years later. Lose some, win some.
Since then, I've become known as a serious player in the business world, but the challenges haven't stopped coming.
Let me tell you about the three most recent challenges. In all three, conventional wisdom bet against us. See, we set up businesses against market Goliaths in very high-capital industries: airline, telecoms, and beverage.
Challenge No. 1 : In 1996, we decided to start an airline. At the time, the dominant airline in the country was PAL, and if you wanted to travel cheaply, you did not fly. You went by sea or by land.
However, my son Lance and I had a vision for Cebu Pacific: We wanted every Filipino to fly.
Inspired by the low-cost carrier models in the United States, we believed that an airline based on the no-frills concept would work here. No hot meals. No newspaper. Mono-class seating. Operating with a single aircraft type. Faster turn around time. It all worked, thus enabling Cebu Pacific to pass on savings to the consumer.
How did we do this? By sticking to our philosophy of "low cost, great value ."
And we stick to that philosophy to this day. Cebu Pacific offers incentives. Customers can avail themselves of a tiered pricing scheme, with promotional seats for as low a P1. The earlier you book, the cheaper your ticket.
Cebu Pacific also made it convenient for passengers by making online booking available. This year, 1.25 million flights will be booked through our website. This reduced our distribution costs dramatically.
Low cost. Great value.
When we started 11 years ago, Cebu Pacific flew only 360,000 passengers, with 24 daily flights to 3 destinations. This year, we expect to fly more than five million passengers, with over 120 daily flights to 20 local destinations and 12 Asian cities. Today, we are the largest in terms of domestic flights, routes and destinations.
We also have the youngest fleet in the region after acquiring new Airbus 319s and 320s. In January, new ATR planes will arrive. These are smaller planes that can land on smaller air strips like those in Palawan and Caticlan. Now you don't have to take a two-hour ride by mini-bus to get to the beach.
Largely because of Cebu Pacific, the average Filipino can now afford to fly. In 2005, 1 out of 12 Filipinos flew within a year. In 2012, by continuing to offer low fares, we hope to reduce that ratio to 1 out of 6. We want to see more and more Filipinos see their country and the world!>
Challenge No. 2: In 2003, we established Digitel Mobile Philippines, Inc. and developed a brand for the mobile phone business called Sun Cellular. Prior to the launch of the brand, we were actually involved in a transaction to purchase PLDT shares of the majority shareholder.
The question in everyone's mind was how we could measure up to the two telecom giants. They were entrenched and we were late by eight years! PLDT held the landline monopoly for quite a while, and was first in the mobile phone industry. Globe was a younger company, but it launched digital mobile technology here.
But being a late player had its advantages. We could now build our platform from a broader perspective. We worked with more advanced technologies and intelligent systems not available ten years ago. We chose our suppliers based on the most cost-efficient hardware and software. Being a Johnny-come- lately allowed us to create and launch more innovative products, more quickly.
All these provided us with the opportunity to give the consumers a choice that would rock their world. The concept was simple. We would offer Filipinos to call and text as much as they want for a fixed monthly fee. For P250 a month, they could get in touch with anyone within the Sun network at any time. This means great savings of as much as 2/3 of their regular phone bill! Suddenly, we gained traction. Within one year of its introduction, Sun hit one million customers.
Once again, the paradigm shifts - this time in the telecom industry. Sun's 24/7 Call and Text unlimited changed the landscape of mobile-phone usage.
Today, we have over 4 million subscribers and 2000 cell sites around the archipelago. In a country where 97% of the market is pre-paid, we believe we have hit on the right strategy.
Sun Cellular is a Johnny-come- lately, but it's doing all right. It is a third player, but a significant one, in an industry where Cassandras believed a third player would perish. And as we have done in the realm of air travel, so have we done in the telecom world: We have changed the marketplace.
In the end, it is all about making life better for the consumer by giving them choices.
Challenge No. 3: In 2004, we launched C2, the green tea drink that would change the face of the local beverage industry -- then, a playground of cola companies. Iced tea was just a sugary brown drink served bottomless in restaurants. For many years, hardly was there any significant product innovation in the beverage business.
Admittedly, we had little experience in this area. Universal Robina Corporation is the leader in snack foods but our only background in beverage was instant coffee. Moreover, we would be entering the playground of huge multinationals. We decided to play anyway.
It all began when I was in China in 2003 and noticed the immense popularity of bottled iced tea. I thought that this product would have huge potential here. We knew that the Philippines was not a traditional tea-drinking country since more familiar to consumers were colas in returnable glass bottles. But precisely, this made the market ready for a different kind of beverage. One that refreshes yet gives the health benefits of green tea. We positioned it as a "spa" in a bottle. A drink that cools and cleans> ...> thus, C2 was born.
C2 immediately caught on with consumers. When we launched C2 in 2004, we sold 100,000 bottles in the first month. Three years later, Filipinos drink around 30 million bottles of C2 per month. Indeed, C2 is in a good place.
With Cebu Pacific, Sun Cellular, and C2, the JG Summit team took control of its destiny. And we did so in industries where old giants had set the rules of the game. It's not that we did not fear the giants. We knew we could have been crushed at the word go. So we just made sure we came prepared with great products and great strategies. We ended up changing the rules of the game instead.>
There goes the principle of self-determination, again. I tell you, it works for individuals as it does for companies. And as I firmly believe, it works for nations.
I have always wondered, like many of us, why we Filipinos have not lived up to our potential. We have proven we can. Manny Pacquiao and Efren Bata Reyes in sports. Lea Salonga and the UP Madrigal Singers in performing arts. Monique Lhuillier and Rafe Totenco in fashion. And these are just the names made famous by the media. There are many more who may not be celebrities but who have gained respect on the world stage.
But to be a truly great nation, we must also excel as entrepreneurs before the world. We must create Filipino brands for the global market place.
If we want to be philosophical, we can say that, with a world-class brand, we create pride for our nation. If we want to be practical, we can say that, with brands that succeed in the world, we create more jobs for our people, right here.
Then, we are able to take part in what's really important-giving our people a big opportunity to raise their standards of living, giving them a real chance to improve their lives.
We can do it. Our neighbors have done it. So can we.
In the last 54 years, Korea worked hard to rebuild itself after a world war and a civil war destroyed it. From an agricultural economy in 1945, it shifted to light industry, consumer products, and heavy industry in the '80s. At the turn of the 21 st century, the Korean government focused on making Korea the world's leading IT nation. It did this by grabbing market share in key sectors like semiconductors, robotics, and biotechnology.
Today, one remarkable Korean brand has made it to the list of Top 100 Global Brands: Samsung. Less then a decade ago, Samsung meant nothing to consumers. By focusing on quality, design, and innovation, Samsung improved its products and its image. Today, it has surpassed the Japanese brand Sony. Now another Korean brand, LG Collins, is following in the footsteps of Samsung. It has also broken into the Top 100 Global Brands list.
What about China? Who would have thought that only 30 years after opening itself up to a market economy, China would become the world's fourth largest economy? Goods made in China are still thought of as cheap. Yet many brands around the world outsource their manufacturing to this country. China's own brands-like Lenovo, Haier, Chery QQ, and Huawei-are fast gaining ground as well. I have no doubt they will be the next big electronics, technology and car brands in the world.
Lee Kwan Yu's book "From Third World to First" captures Singapore 's aspiration to join the First World. According to the book, Singapore was a trading post that the British developed as a nodal point in its maritime empire. The racial riots there made its officials determined to build a "multiracial society that would give equality to all citizens, regardless of race, language or religion."
When Singapore was asked to leave the Malaysian Federation of States in 1965, Lee Kwan Yew developed strategies that he executed with single-mindedness despite their being unpopular. He and his cabinet started to build a nation by establishing the basics: building infrastructure, establishing an army, weeding out corruption, providing mass housing, building a financial center. Forty short years after, Singapore has been transformed into the richest South East Asian country today, with a per capita income of US$32,000.
These days, Singapore is transforming itself once more. This time it wants to be the creative hub in Asia, maybe even the world. More and more, it is attracting the best minds from all over the world in filmmaking, biotechnology, media, and finance. Meantime, Singaporeans have also created world-class brands: Banyan Tree in the hospitality industry, Singapore Airlines in the Airline industry and Singapore Telecoms in the telco industry.>
I often wonder: Why can't the Philippines, or a Filipino, do this?
Fifty years after independence, we have yet to create a truly global brand. We cannot say the Philippines is too small because it has 86 million people. Switzerland, with 9 million people, created Nestle. Sweden, also with 9 million people, created Ericsson. Finland, even smaller with five million people, created Nokia . All three are major global brands, among others.
Yes, our country is well-known for its labor, as we continue to export people around the world. And after India, we are grabbing a bigger chunk of the pie in the call-center and business-process- outsourcing industries. But by and large, the Philippines has no big industrial base, and Filipinos do not create world-class products.
We should not be afraid to try-even if we are laughed at. Japan , laughed at for its cars, produced Toyota. Korea, for its electronics, produced Samsung.
But already, hats off to Filipino entrepreneurs making strides to globalize their brands.
Goldilocks has had much success in the Unites States and Canada, where half of its customers are non-Filipinos. Coffee-chain Figaro may be a small player in the coffee world today, but it is making the leap to the big time. Two Filipinas, Bea Valdez and Tina Ocampo, are now selling their Philippine-made jewelry and bags all over the world. Their labels are now at Barney's and Bergdorf's in the U.S. and in many other high-end shops in Asia, Europe, and the Middle East.
When we started our own foray outside the Philippines 30 years ago, it wasn't a walk in the park. We set up a small factory in Hong Kong to manufacture Jack and Jill potato chips there. Today, we are all over Asia. We have the number-one-potato- chips brand in Malaysia and Singapore. We are the leading biscuit manufacturer in Thailand, and a significant player in the candy market in Indonesia. Our Aces cereal brand is a market leader in many parts of China. C2 is now doing very well in Vietnam, selling over 3 million bottles a month there, after only 6 months in the market. Soon, we will launch C2 in other South East Asian markets.
I am 81 today. But I do not forget the little boy that I was in the palengke in Cebu. I still believe in family. I still want to make good. I still don't mind going up against those older and better than me. I still believe hard work will not fail me. And I still believe in people willing to think the same way.
Through the years, the market place has expanded: between cities, between countries, between continents. I want to urge you all here to think bigger. Why serve 86 million when you can sell to four billion Asians? And that's just to start you off. Because there is still the world beyond Asia. When you go back to your offices, think of ways to sell and market your products and services to the world. Create world-class brands.
You can if you really tried. I did. As a boy, I sold peanuts from my backyard. Today, I sell snacks to the world.
Posted by zelina on Jan 8, '08 7:42 PM for everyone
What Zelina David De Vera Means
You are incredibly wise and perceptive. You have a lot of life experience. You are a natural peacemaker, and you are especially good at helping others get along. But keeping the peace in your own life is not easy. You see things very differently, and it's hard to get you to budge.
You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone. You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together. At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.
You are relaxed, chill, and very likely to go with the flow. You are light hearted and accepting. You don't get worked up easily. Well adjusted and incredibly happy, many people wonder what your secret to life is.
You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing. You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long. You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.
You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people. You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts. You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.
You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection. You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive. You have the classic "Type A" personality.
You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row. You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace. People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality.
You are very hyper. You never slow down, even when it's killing you. You're the type of person who can be a workaholic during the day... and still have the energy to party all night. Your energy is definitely a magnet for those around you. People are addicted to your vibe.
You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something. You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense. You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.
Posted by zelina on Oct 2, '07 7:09 AM for everyone
I sure haven't posted anything in this site since like forever: photos are at the least 7 months old, entries prolly more, and the rest are just friggin' dead. When almost everyone I know has at least a photo from work, I have none. To sum it up for those who are even remotely interested: the almost three months of my "working life" (quotation marks are in order as I'd like to believe I have a life outside of the structure that calls itself a "house" instead of a "building") has gone from low to high, sad to happy, left to right, and all the opposite adjectives you can muster. It's not all bad, but it is also not perfect. I'm hoping the next few months would have a favorable result in store.
Anyway, last week as I've prolly felt the low of lows at work (the reason for which I cannot really identify), my boss emailed this piece of writing and I admit it hit some part of me. Here's to you getting hit as well!
Directions: Take 2 minutes to read this. Then close you PC, leave the office, and go hug a loved one...
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Subject: Meaningful Speech by Pulitzer Prize winner: Anna Quindlen
This was a speech made by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Anna Quindlen at the graduation ceremony of an American university where she was awarded an Honorary PhD. Worth reading !!
"I'm a novelist. My work is human nature. Real life is all I know. Don't ever confuse the two, your life and your work. You will walk out of here this afternoon with only one thing that no one else has. There will be hundreds of people out there with your same degree: there will be thousands of people doing what you want to do for a living. But you will be the only person alive who has sole custody of your life. Your particular life. Your entire life. Not just your life at a desk, or your life on a bus, or in a car, or at the computer. Not just the life of your mind, but the life of your heart. Not just your bank accounts but also your soul.
People don't talk about the soul very much anymore. It's so much easier to write a resume than to craft a spirit. But a resume is cold comfort on a winter's night, or when you're sad, or broke, or lonely, or when you've received your test results and they're not so good.
Here is my resume: I am a good mother to three children. I have tried never to let my work stand in the way of being a good parent. I no longer consider myself the centre of the universe. I show up. I listen.
I try to laugh. I am a good friend to my husband. I have tried to make marriage vows mean what they say. I am a good friend to my friends and they to me. Without them, there would be nothing to say to you today, because I would be a cardboard cut out. But I call them on the phone, and I meet them for lunch. I would be rotten, at best mediocre at my job if those other things were not true.
You cannot be really first rate at your work if your work is all you are. So here's what I wanted to tell you today: Get a life. A real life, not a manic pursuit of the next promotion, the bigger pay cheque, the larger house. Do you think you'd care so very much about those things if you blew an aneurysm one afternoon, or found a lump in your breast?
Get a life in which you notice the smell of salt water pushing itself on a breeze at the seaside, a life in which you stop and watch how a red-tailed hawk circles over the water, or the way a baby scowls with concentration when she tries to pick up a sweet with her thumb and first finger.
Get a life in which you are not alone. Find people you love, and who love you. And remember that love is not leisure, it is work. Pick up the phone. Send an email. Write a letter. Get a life in which you are generous. And realize that life is the best thing ever, and that you have no business taking it for granted. Care so deeply about its goodness that you want to spread it around. Take money you would have spent on beer and give it to charity. Work in a soup kitchen. Be a big brother or sister. All of you want to do well. But if you do not do good too, then doing well will never be enough.
It is so easy to waste our lives, our days, our hours, and our minutes. It is so easy to take for granted the color of our kids' eyes, the way the melody in a symphony rises and falls and disappears and rises again. It is so easy to exist instead of to live.
I learned to live many years ago. I learned to love the journey, not the destination. I learned that it is not a dress rehearsal, and that today is the only guarantee you get. I learned to look at all the good in the world and try to give some of it back because I believed in it, completely and utterly. And I tried to do that, in part, by telling others what I had learned. By telling them this: Consider the lilies of the field. Look at the fuzz on a baby's ear. Read in the back yard with the sun on your face. Learn to be happy. And think of life as a terminal illness, because if you do, you will live it with joy and passion as it ought to be lived".
Well, this is not saying that I wouldn't care about getting rich, high up in the corporate ladder, or go out for drinks. All I'm saying is, it's just nice to be reminded that beyond all that's physically bright and shiny, I should have something more.